Dear Alexander #27: Judging Others

You don’t need to deploy your thesis on how to live onto others just because you see they’re not living your version of an ‘optimal life’. Just because someone doesn’t have similar standards to you, doesn’t mean they haven’t attained their own success, meaning and fulfilment. Consider where they used to be to get a perspective on how far they’ve come, maybe you’re only seeing a small snapshot of what has been a long period of growth.

Placing blunt judgements on someone can either be the harsh truth someone need’s to hear, or a dissuading demotivation that strokes your…